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Ms. Lee will be attributed to the breakdown of marriage "and not character", in the one week after the divorce, and her first husband, who held talks with her surprise: her husband "Jichou" is Ms. Lee said in every dispute "Gas it." Psychologists believe that many couples quarrel in the end, have developed into a "complaint", the heart out of you wish to, but he sentence in the misunderstanding, so that almost all the arguments have nothing to the Cold War. Then, in the quarrel, how can we kind of effective communication? ? Experts put the three "no" to proposals. said, "I" do not say "you." "Do you actually use this attitude to me? "" you have committed the Lao Maobing. "This sentence is not very familiar with the? When we start with "you" sentence condemning each other, on the other side has cornered the corner of a self-defense. In other chaos that your judgement, is a natural reaction to defend itself, and then counterattack. When the defense system built up, the immediate cessation of the communication.